Many a curveball was thrown by people who said one thing many times, only to switch it up after weeks or months.  Why?  Because what was perceived as the truth was actually an assumption. 

Setting expectations and maintaining the possibility that things may not actually go as assumed is the best way to avoid a lot of butthurt.  

'I don't know' is an acceptable answer when you don't actually know.  

Kris Roley

Virginia Beach, VA, 23453